Today we meet with many differences in our life and family and to create a binding with your children today we need to keep close eyes on the behavior and changes in their daily life. Here are some important point that could be a necessity for a close binding between Mom & Daughter.
Listen what your daughter is saying. Don’t interrupt her. Guide her in the way, where you don’t become a negative part.
Positive communication starts with good listening. When you practice active listening,
you concentrate on what your daughter tells you instead of thinking about your response or advice that you want to give.
Create an atmosphere of trust. If you will trust your daughter then you will also get the positive feedback from her.When you talk to a teen, it’s simple for character attacks, blaming, assumptions, over generalizations, past events and irrelevant issues to sneak into conversations. To promote positive communication, talk to your teen about how the two of you can communicate with each other in a way that’s more respectful, focused and open; brainstorm together.
As a mom, it’s important to maintain your role as a parent, not as your daughter’s best friend. Your daughter has friends her own age and she’s more interested in finding her own sense of self than being the younger version of you. However, it’s important to stay connected to your daughter by listening to the music that she enjoys, going window shopping and taking a true interest in what she likes.
This is probably the most difficult step for mothers but it is one of the most important. You have to understand and accept that your daughter is not a child any longer. She is growing into an independent, mature human being and the sooner you begin treating her as such, the better your relationship will be.
Children are not born with racism and classicism. It is environmental conditioning. Much of it is unconscious, and all of it is due to misunderstandings. The best thing you can do for your daughters is to give them as many experiences as possible with as many different people as possible.
This is perhaps one of the most important of all of their life lessons. Self-respect isn’t just honoring themselves. It is being able to objectively take a look at themselves, at where they actually are, and where they want to go. Through their experiences with stillness, with play, with socialization, and through their reactions to life experiences, your daughters will come to learn who they really are. Encourage them in this discovery. Encourage them to learn from experience and identify how they are changing and growing.
Take responsibility for your actions and apologize when you are in the wrong.
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True , we are somewhat responsible for our children’s behavior.
Also the Early education is in our hand